Decades of conversation with many hundreds of people, and my own therapeutic experiences, have shaped how I really listen, what I share, and how I reflect something back. The form of Holding Conversation that exists today was born as the sum of those experiences.

It is not coaching, not therapy, not a psychological consultation, not advice, not cleverness, and it holds neither a wish to “fix” the other person nor the illusion that “I know anything better than you do.”

What I try to offer

• Full acceptance of who you are, together with every feeling, thought, act, and with your past
• A deep understanding that you are, in fact, already completely all right
• One hundred percent receptive, understanding attention
• Sharing my own experience only when I feel it can offer a viewpoint that moves you forward
• Thought-provoking, well-aimed questions
• A calm, holding presence and space
• Passing on techniques I believe may help you
• The chance to learn from each other
• The certainty that the keys to you are with you, not with me

I am interested